boys and men will try to convince you that humans are intrinsically selfish and egotistical because they can’t cope with the fact that women are actually taught from birth to put their community, their friends, their family, everyone on equal (sometimes even higher) footing.
male individualism is completely dependent on the emotional labour of women, and whenever you try to point this out they act like you’re denying basic human facts
please check on your loved ones. even if you think they’re okay. check on the ones who are always there for you. tell them you love them. please don’t always expect your loved ones to always be there, don’t take them for granted.